Hunters.

You know what this is about, right?

It says what it is - you know. You give a friend “can see me on the map” status and they do not have their SL-etiquette together. So you say, “You are welcome, just IM me first.”

…and they just do not. That is another fine line to walk on - when to “educate” gently and when to think this person has no judgment whatsoever. Using SL etiquette should not be much different from judgmental skills - or should it? I had the tendency to teach and preach, but sometimes it is better to learn.

See me on the map rights, for me, is a sign of trust, so as not to be followed, but “You are my friend, you can see me where I am and that is OK”. Hunting people down repeatedly - when you see the person is like one linden meter away from you - seems to me very bad judgment. Maybe a notecard thing once again? “Following people repeatedly may borderline on harassment, unless you really did not know it could be perceived that way”.

I just find good people remaining good in my book - unless newbie noobs - seem to know that. Do not hunt! It is a way of distant monitoring and against good manners. /// stern mode off /// good friends know to IM first before materializing. Even with the alarms I do want to keep my landie accessible :)